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COMMON SENSE

What is the difference between a lack of faith and good old common sense?  That’s a question I have been struggling with for some months now as the Lord stretches me and grows me in this area of my life.

First, a little background which might help you relate to my battle…

For months I have been waiting for some business ventures I have been working on to fall into place.  My reason for these ventures is to fund Kingdom work, but I have been frustrated at every turn.  Is that blockage because God is testing my resolve to do His work or because Satan wants me to quit?  I don’t know…

Deadlines have been missed time and time again and always with the promise that, “everything is ok” and “it will happen real soon.” So little by little I have run out of time and resources as I have waited for things to materialize.

Friends and family have shown concern and interest but not in as sincere a way as I would have hoped.  I’ve felt like the Psalmist who said “no one cares for my soul!” This has taught me a lot about showing compassion to others in a meaningful way.  Even those who have helped me have seemed to be reluctant and controlling.  To be perfectly honest, I just don’t get it and it hurts!

One other important point to bring into the mix:  All along I have stayed engaged in ministry and never set that aside just to focus on business.  I believe my success will never come if money becomes the controlling force and therefore I will minister to others with all my heart even when I am up to my eyeballs in business opportunities.  Ministry always comes first for me.

Now to the theological question…

When do we cross the line from being a person of faith over into being a fool?  This is my conclusion.  I am a sinful man and know I will certainly get it wrong some times.  But just like Peter who stepped out of the boat by faith, if I start to falter and go down into the water, Jesus will be there and reach out to save me (Matthew 14:28-31).  I have no doubt of that whatsoever! I have chosen to be a fool for Christ (I Corinthians 4:10) and ‘if I perish, I perish!’ (Ester 4:16).  Job said it best; “Though he slays me, yet will I trust Him” (Job 13:15).  I believe that I am seeking God in this endeavor.  I have put it all on the line with no reserve.  And even if I am wrong and this is just my idea of how to serve God but not His too, I believe He will step in and keep me from harm because He loves me and knows my heart (Daniel 3:17-18).

So then what’s the difference between having faith and abandoning our common sense?  The answer for me is that my trust in His character and provision, no matter what the outcome, require me to abandon common sense and be a man of faith. I will follow my heart to attempt great things for God and will go down swinging if need be.  But I will never give in to the notion that God is not sufficient for my every need. And if I fail, I know that He will help me get back up and together we will keep going hard at it until He takes me home.

Expectations

This picture came to my inbox today and got me thinking about “Expectations.” I once saw an interview of Warren Buffet and his longtime partner (who no one has ever heard of) Charlie Munger. The question was asked of them how they got along so well for so many years? They glanced at each other and without hesitation Charlie said,” We have very low expectations of one another.” Wow! There is an insight that everyone needs to understand!

As we approach Christmas, what does this truth mean to us? First it means that God has low expectations of you and me. When God became a man (Jesus Christ), he was willing to sacrifice everything and humble himself in the hope that we would respond to his free gift of love but he had no assurance we would. He had high hopes but low expectations of our desire to reconnect with him as our savior and creator. He gives with no expectation of a return on his investment. He even offers to pay the price of our admission to heaven for free. All we need to do is believe in him.

Secondly, we need to lower our expectations of God. Not because he cannot deliver but because when he does deliver it is always out of love and not because we demand it. We also need to understand that as God, he knows best and therefore does not give us everything we expect or even want because it would undoubtedly ruin our lives. We give ourselves to God with no expectation of what he will do with our life. We simply know that he has our best at heart.

Thirdly, we will get along better with others if we lower our expectations of them. Not only are you imperfect but so is everyone else. Let’s stop judging others by our own standards. That does not mean we expect nothing but let’s realize that there is a lot more going on than we realize and we need to be as generous as possible in expressing our judgment of others. We can afford to lower our expectations of others and it will reap large dividends.

When God became a man over 2000 years ago and lived among us, he gave up all his Kingly prerogatives to show us how much he loved us. In this Christmas Season are you willing to follow his example? This is the secret to a long-lasting relationship with God and others.

“For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour, which is Christ the Lord. And this shall be a sign unto you; Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger.” Luke 2:11-12 King James Version (KJV)